Dinner With Tony Soprano

On HBO series "The Soprano's," did you ever notice how many times Tony had his "family" (a.k.a. employees) over to his home for dinner?  BBQs, formal dinners, and parties.  All intended to "build his team," honor them, and get closer to them.

It's something so many team leaders forget to do these days.  There's nothing quite like a little socializing with working partners while breaking bread (just be sure your team isn't out breaking legs--like Tony's guys).

It won't work if you overdue it. But done genuinely and in the right doses, it'll be enjoyable anyway--and it'll all work out.

In the rush of driving results and getting things done, be sure to make time to slow down and enjoy the people with whom you work.  They'll see you in a different light, and sometimes that's a really good thing.